You have been dating your Virgo man for a while and you think that you have finally conquered him. He stops hitting on other women and even seems to be happy in your relationship. All of a sudden, out of nowhere, he disappears. What is going on? Well. I am going to tell you what happens when you ignore a Virgo man, but first, you need to know that ignoring a Virgo man is a tactic. If used incorrectly it can lead to disaster. However, if used correctly it can be a powerful tool.
Virgos are known for being meticulous and organized. They are also very independent and don’t like to rely on others. This can make it difficult for them to form relationships, because they may not be willing or able to open up completely. If a Virgo man is ignored, he may become resentful or even angry. He may also start depending more on his own resources, which could lead to him becoming addicted to work or spending more time alone.
First and foremost, you need to know that a Virgo man is passionate. He is extremely loyal and he loves his family. He cares deeply for those he loves. One of the things that make him tick is order. He is OCD but in a good way. If you give him an inch, he will take a mile. He detests chaos and disorder and will do anything to make sure that he has the best orderly life possible.
He can be very cautious and He thinks before he acts. However, he is also very caring and protective of those he loves. He is probably one of the nicest guys you will ever meet.
A Virgo is meticulous and absolutely hates mess. He is probably one of the most organized people you have ever dated. He probably has the cleanest house you have ever seen. The house he lives in probably does resemble something out of the TV show “Keeping Up With The Joneses.”
However, if his order is not respected or if things are not put in their place then he could be a little strict. He hates clutter. He hates dust. He hates dirt. He hates anything which would dirty his hands. He probably has not vacuumed your carpet since the last time you dated him.
The last thing you want to do is to make him feel neglected. He is very sensitive to feeling unloved. In fact, he is probably one of the most loyal guys you have ever met. If you ignore him, he will feel unloved, neglected, and uncared for.
He is a quiet guy. He often does not speak a lot. However, when he does talk, it is always in carefully crafted sentences. He is very protective of you and of those he loves. He will go to church on Sunday. He will go to dinner with his friends. He will not spend all of his free time with you.
He is self-sufficient. He probably does his own laundry. He probably does his own dishes. He probably cleans his own place. He probably does his own repairs. He probably fixes his own car. He probably takes his own shower. He probably does his own maintenance on the things that he owns. He probably does his own grocery shopping. He probably does his own breakfast. He probably does his own cooking.
He probably does not like a contradiction. He probably does not like to do things twice. He probably does not like to do things that he doesn’t enjoy. He probably does not like to do things that are messy. He probably does not like to do things that are complicated. He probably does not like to do things that are difficult. He probably does not like to do things that are repetitive. He probably does not like to do things that are boring. He probably does not like to do things that are redundant. He probably does not like to do things that make him uncomfortable. He is probably an extremely hard worker.
A Virgo man will give you the silent treatment if he’s angry with you. If you apologize to a Virgo man, he will forgive you, but he will not forget. He will not forget how you made him feel. He will not forget how you hurt him.
You may feel that he is being a little unreasonable. After all, he is just doing what he does. However, you need to realize that he is not doing it for you. It is done out of an overwhelming need to make sure that everything is in order.
When you talk to him, it is best to let the conversation flow naturally. Do not start the conversation by asking him questions. It is enough for him to know that you are listening.
Do not leave any space for him to feel neglected. When the silence becomes too long, start the conversation back up again.
When he talks to you, do not interrupt. If he is being unreasonable, tell him. Explain how his actions are making you feel. Do not let him see that you are irritated. A Virgo man is worth the effort, so don’t ignore him!
He has a high tolerance for being ignored because he knows that if he’s in a relationship, he will eventually get his attention.